Phone Sex Domination

Phone Sex Domination

Domination is a poison or a potion, depending on what the submissive yearns for, and what the domme decides is best for both of them. When the general public thinks of domination, they often think of a leather clad, whip wielding ‘Mistress’ type, generally. Someone in a vicious state of complete control over someone kneeling or even groveling at their feet. Perhaps they will have an ebony and gleaming stiletto heel being pressed into their face or somewhere a bit more …intimate. Yes, that’s the usual perception of domination, the giving and receiving. But the reality and complexity of the true nature of it is so much more than this. So much deeper and difficult to categorize, really.

For phone sex, especially no taboo and extreme fetish phone sex, domination is often able to be explored to its fullest extent. A submissive feels even less restraint than he might in a face to face situation, and therefore is able to act out and experience what might well be his fondest wishes – but in a very safe environment. There is no more reliable ‘safe word’ failsafe, than being able to simply hang up once the sex call with the Phone Sex Operator is over. A long distance domme is never going to press to overstep sexual and psychological limits, when the submissive is able to simply end the situation.

I’ve played a lot of domination fantasies at thephonesexbar. However, this makes the experience a different sort of a controlling one, and in many ways, the entire aspect is changed. For some submissives, the differences are just what they need to be able to more fully explore themselves. For others, it might just be that they require that greater danger and loss of control, that comes with ‘in person’ submission. For myself personally, I have found that I enjoy both to an extreme degree, because after all … as long as my submissive understands that I am The Goddess and the Only One That Matters .. I think we’re both good!

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